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Everything You Know About Recovery is Wrong

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Innovators, like Johann Hari, help us understand better those who struggle with addiction and help us challenge our preconceived ideas on the criminalization of drug use. He helps us ask the hard questions. What is addiction? How does addiction happen? How can we help those who struggle with addiction to achieve recovery? And he gives us surprising solutions as he makes striking statements like, “the opposite of addiction is connection.”

Reframing Our Understanding of Addiction

Hari’s work challenges the traditional narrative that addiction is primarily about the chemical hooks of drugs themselves. Through his research and interviews with scientists, policymakers, and individuals in recovery around the world, he presents compelling evidence that addiction is fundamentally about human disconnection and pain rather than simply a matter of exposure to substances.

His famous statement, “the opposite of addiction is connection,” emerged from examining studies like the Rat Park experiments conducted by psychologist Bruce Alexander. These studies showed that rats in enriched, social environments were far less likely to compulsively consume drugs than isolated rats, suggesting that environmental and social factors play a crucial role in addiction vulnerability.

The Human Need for Bonding

This perspective shifts our focus from viewing people with substance use disorders as morally weak or biologically defective to understanding them as individuals seeking relief from trauma, isolation, or emotional pain. When healthy connections to other people, meaningful work, and community are absent or severed, substances can become a substitute—a way to bond with something, even if that something is harmful.

Implications for Treatment and Policy

If connection is indeed the antidote to addiction, then successful recovery requires more than abstinence—it requires rebuilding relationships, fostering community belonging, and creating opportunities for meaningful engagement. This understanding supports treatment approaches that emphasize peer support, family involvement, vocational rehabilitation, and long-term community integration.

It also challenges punitive drug policies that further isolate and stigmatize people with substance use disorders, potentially deepening the very disconnection that fuels addiction in the first place.